My friends in Gurgaon always tease me about being the "frugal one" in the group. While they're busy posting Instagram stories from the latest rooftop bar or high-end restaurant, I quietly offer to host game nights at my place. "Date nights? I can't do that all the time, right?" I often find myself saying.

It's not that I don't enjoy going out - I love dressing up and treating my girlfriend Pooja to a fancy meal. But the cost quickly adds up. A ₹2,000 bill for a two-course dinner and drinks? That's nearly a tenth of my monthly rent! So, whenever we decide to have a proper date night, I scour the internet for deals and discounts.

Last month, I found a 1+1 offer at a new fusion restaurant in Cyber Hub. Pooja was thrilled, and I was relieved to have saved ₹1,000. But sometimes, I can't help but wonder if I'm being too stingy. Will Pooja eventually get tired of my relentless penny-pinching and find someone who can truly wine and dine her?

The truth is, my money-saving habits stem from growing up in a middle-class Punjabi household in Delhi. My parents, both government employees, instilled in me the value of prudent spending. Whenever I asked for the latest gadget or designer clothes, they'd gently remind me, "Beta, sab ke paas itna paisa nahi hota." (Son, not everyone has that much money.)

Now, as a marketing executive earning ₹65,000 per month, I know I can afford to be more generous. But the fear of financial instability - of not having a healthy savings cushion - is deeply ingrained. I've seen friends and family members go through tough times, and I'm determined not to end up in a similar situation.

Perhaps one day, I'll be able to strike a better balance between responsible savings and enjoying life's small luxuries. For now, Pooja understands and even appreciates my frugal ways. She knows that when I do splurge on her, it comes from the heart. After all, true love isn't defined by the price tag, but by the thought and effort behind it.